The increasing rate at which people across the world are subjected to undignifying and horrible treatment has become alarming. Mistreatment, condescending behavior, and open disrespect are now common—even among Christians.
Sadly, what should distinguish the Church from the world has become blurred. Many believers now mirror society’s growing disregard for authority, parents, leaders, and even one another. Honor, once regarded as a sacred virtue, is now often viewed as unnecessary or outdated.
Worse still, insecurity has made many uncomfortable with celebrating others’ success or giving due recognition. In a world that says, “No one cares about such things anymore,” it’s time to rediscover what honor truly means.
Let’s explore the principle of honor together.
The Concept of Honor
The dictionary defines honor as recognition of importance, respect, or esteem given to someone for their worth, virtue, or success.
But beyond this, in the Kingdom of God, honor is the act of conferring value on what God values. It’s not merely an action — it’s a heart posture.
“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”
— Romans 12:10 (NIV)
Honor is one of the foundational principles that governs the Kingdom of God. And as children of that Kingdom, we are called to live by this same principle.
Who Should You Honor?
At first glance, this may seem like an obvious question. Yet in today’s culture, where disrespect is celebrated and humility is mocked, it’s worth revisiting.
1. Honor Those in Authority
God’s Word is clear: “Honor your father and mother” (Ephesians 6:2), and “Give respect to whom respect is due” (Romans 13:7).
We are to honor our parents, spiritual leaders, mentors, bosses, and those placed in authority over us.
2. Honor Those Who Excel
We also honor those who demonstrate excellence in character, work, or service. Recognizing and celebrating others’ achievements reflects gratitude, not insecurity.
3. Honor Everyone
True Kingdom honor goes beyond hierarchy. Every person — regardless of race, background, or belief — bears the image of God. That alone is enough reason to treat them with dignity.
Jesus modeled this beautifully when He honored Zacchaeus, a tax collector despised by society. While others rejected him, Jesus’ act of dining with him led to Zacchaeus’ transformation.
“For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.”
— Luke 19:10
Codes of Honor
To live a life of honor, we must understand the principles that sustain it. Here are some guiding truths:
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Every person is an image-bearer of God and deserves respect.
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God Himself honored humanity by creating us in His image.
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Selfishness makes honor impossible — prefer others before yourself.
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Celebrate the uniqueness and individuality of others.
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Speak well of people, especially in their absence.
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Take time to understand people’s stories before judging them.
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Serving others is one of the highest forms of honor.
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Acknowledge and celebrate people’s efforts and contributions.
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Pray for those in positions of authority.
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Practice kindness — help others fulfill their purpose.
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Keep your word; reliability is an expression of honor.
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Celebrate those walking the paths you aspire to; you attract what you honor.
The Nature of a True Honorer
Becoming a person of honor requires the cultivation of certain virtues:
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Knowledge – Understanding the biblical foundation of honor.
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Self-Control – Responding with respect regardless of personal feelings.
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Humility – Recognizing that honoring others doesn’t reduce your worth.
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Discernment – Valuing what truly matters over fleeting status or power.
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Integrity – Refusing to flatter others for selfish gain.
A true honorer is someone grounded in wisdom, grace, and sincerity.
The Rewards of Honor
Honor is not just a command; it carries great reward — both spiritual and practical.
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Honor Transforms Hearts.
Just like Zacchaeus, people change when treated with dignity. -
Honor Cultivates Maturity.
Honoring others helps us grow in emotional and spiritual strength. -
Honor Builds Trust.
When we respect others, we create safe spaces where relationships thrive. -
Honor Is Reciprocal.
“Those who honor Me, I will honor,” says the Lord (1 Samuel 2:30). -
Honor Attracts Blessing.
God attaches specific blessings to honor, especially toward parents (Ephesians 6:2–3). -
Honor Releases Favor.
People naturally bless those who honor them — sometimes without even realizing it.
Living a Life of Honor
God has called His children to stand out in conduct and character. In a culture that mocks virtue, believers are called to display the beauty of the Kingdom through love and respect.
“Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the king.”
— 1 Peter 2:17
Honor is more than good manners — it is a reflection of God’s heart.
When we choose to honor others, we reflect His nature to the world.
Final Thought
Honor is not old-fashioned; it’s eternal.
It is the fragrance of humility, the proof of love, and the gateway to God’s favor.
Let’s bring back the culture of honor — in our homes, churches, workplaces, and communities.
Because when we honor people, we honor the God who created them.
